How to Find Your Future Waxer
(Without Ending Up Traumatized)
Waxing services are intimate. . Whether it’s your brows, your underarms, or your entire nether region, you're trusting someone to remove hair from places where the sun doesn't shine. So finding the right waxer? Absolutely essential.
This isn’t just about smooth skin—it’s about safety, hygiene, comfort, and vibes.
Here’s what to look for when finding your waxing soulmate:
What to Look For in a Waxer
Kindness
Brazilian waxes are vulnerable enough—no need to feel judged while pants-down. A kind waxer talks you through the process, keeps things light, and makes sure you feel safe and respected the entire time.
Education
Hair breakage, ingrowns, irritation—yeah, not cute. A well-educated waxer understands how to avoid and/or problem-solve those issues. They know the right wax for your skin, how to prep the area, and what can cause irritation.
Aftercare Obsessed (In a Good Way)
You’re not here for a product push—you’re here for advice that helps your skin heal and stay smooth. A great waxer will explain what to use and when, based on your skin type, not their commission goals.
Technique > Speed
Fast doesn’t always mean flawless. While efficiency is a skill, your waxer should still take time to snatch those hairs with precision. Proper form is key—because without it, you run the risk of:
Hair breakage (which can lead to ingrown hairs and irritation
Skin lifting
Skin tearing (yep, it’s as scary as it sounds)
Problem Solver Energy
Not everyone walks out of a wax 100% hairless and bruise-free—and that’s okay! Some folks are just more prone to lifting or bruising. What matters is how your waxer handles it.
Are they using oil to buffer delicate skin? Powder to reduce friction? Are they communicating about what happened and how to prevent it next time? That's the difference between a technician and a professional.
Let’s Talk Hygiene (a.k.a. The "Double Dipping" Debate)
To each their own, but I personally would not go to someone who double-dips their stick. Not only is that not legal in the state of Wisconsin, but it also gives me the biggest ✨ick✨.
The Science Behind It
Some waxers will argue: “The wax is hot enough to kill bacteria!”
Here’s the truth: Not all bacteria die in high heat—especially not the heat levels in your average wax pot. Some microorganisms (hi, staph) can survive warm environments. And let’s be honest—if you’ve ever spotted a rogue pube chilling in the pot? That’s a one-way ticket to nope-ville for me.
Bottom line: One stick per dip. Every time. Your skin deserves clean, safe tools.
Things to Watch Out For
No license visible – If you can’t find proof they’re licensed, trust is already broken.
Too fast, too furious – If they’re done in 6 minutes and missed half your bikini line… yikes.
No aftercare guidance – You deserve instructions and support, not silence.
You feel awkward or dismissed – Your comfort matters. If the vibes are off, don’t ignore it.
They don’t acknowledge problems – If a bruise or lift happens and they don’t say a word about it? Now, sometimes irritation isn’t visible right away. If this happens, make sure you tell your esty ASAP so she can make note of it and be aware for next time.
PSA: Don’t Expect Perfection
Even the most seasoned waxers have off days—and your body isn’t always predictable either. Sometimes hair breaks. Sometimes your skin lifts. Sometimes your cycle makes you more sensitive than usual.
What really matters?
How your waxer responds. Do they communicate? Adjust their approach? Show concern? That’s the difference between someone just doing a job and someone who cares about your skin. And your safety isn’t compromised.
When You Know, You Know
The right waxer isn’t just skilled—they make you feel heard, safe, and empowered. They’re clean, educated, gentle, and real about what your skin actually needs.
When you find that person?
Hold on to them. Rebook immediately. Maybe even bake them cookies.
Want to experience a wax where hygiene, comfort, and care come first?
Book a Brazilian or brow wax at V’s Skin Studio and see what it feels like to be treated like royalty—with clean sticks, real aftercare, and zero shame.